Living in Mexico and Learning to Speak Spanish: Tales & How-to Tips

The purpose of this blog is to provide information about Mexico -- mostly through my husband's and my day-to-day experiences of living in Mexico, specifically in San Juan Cosala, Jalisco, by Lake Chapala near Ajijic. I write for people who might live or retire in Mexico, for expats or travelers currently in Mexico, and for Mexicans. I write about how to learn to speak Spanish, why it's important, and how to get started. For more, visit my website www.mexico-with-heart.com as well! -- Rosana Hart

 

Saturday, March 31, 2007

At the Ajijic Clinic

Recently I went to the Ajijic Clinic, a small private clinic/hospital located on the main highway in Ajijic. Kelly has been going to a similar clinic, the Maskaras Clinic a few kilometers further east in Riberas de Pilar, and he has been very happy with the health care he has received from Dr. Garcia, the director there.

I chose the Ajijic Clinic because I needed to go to a dermatologist and a friend of mine recommended the one at this clinic. Dra. Reyes comes out from Guadalajara a couple of times a week. She speaks English more correctly than I speak Spanish but I am perhaps the more fluent. When she suggested that we could speak Spanglish, I felt right at home, as I often make that very suggestion! We communicated perfectly from then on, in Spanglish.

On my first visit, she examined me and was able to assure me that I only had benign moles and such on my body. We scheduled a second visit for a liquid nitrogen session to remove a bunch of these from my face and neck for cosmetic reasons. She said it wasn't too painful.

When I went back for the procedure, I lay on an examining table, and she and a nurse were on either side of me. The nurse, Lulu, was very friendly and outgoing. She has a little English but we stayed pretty much in Spanish.

As the doctora sprayed the nitrogen on the various spots, she and Lulu kept up a running conversation which I joined at times. When two Mexican women estan platicando (are chatting) I am lucky to follow a third of it, but it wasn't hard to pick out ex-esposo (ex-spouse) so I commented on that. I don't remember exactly how the conversation jumped but I learned that when Mexican men find a woman attractive they may call her a mamacita and the reverse is true too: a good-looking fellow may be called a papacito. I will listen for these words in conversations I overhear. I told them the English expression "red hot mama," which they both chortled at.

All this lively banter helped distract me, which was good, because the stings of the nitrogen did hurt at times. I'm glad to have that behind me.

I would definitely go back to that clinic in the future. In fact, I will be there next month for a CPR class that a Canadian woman I know has set up.

A friend of mine just had knee surgery at the Ajijic Clinic and she could not say enough good things about the quality of the doctors and of the care she received during her few days there. A specialist came out for Guadalajara for the surgery, and she was in the clinic for a few days after. She commented on how very caring the people were.

Costs: An office visit with the doctor was 350 pesos, about $32 US. The procedure was 800 pesos. Not bad. And I didn't have to wait more than about 5 minutes to see the doctor either time!

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Friday, March 23, 2007

Looking at Real Estate Around Lake Chapala

While my sister-in-law Molly was here, we spent a couple of afternoons looking around at places for sale along the north side of Lake Chapala. Molly hadn't been here before and she was surprised at how high a lot of the prices were for what you get.

We covered a lot of territory, from some of the small towns east of Chapala, to Chapala Haciendas, to the Ajijic area and west to our town of San Juan Cosala and just beyond it to El Limon. Molly's photo below captures some of the feeling of many homes here:


We saw some fixer-uppers and some that were being sold furnished, where you could just move in. I sure got a sense of how much is on the market here. Like the US, things are selling more slowly than last year. While I saw a couple of things I liked, I came home feeling very grateful for our sweet little place!

I could mention some prices, but better to lead you to the source. The mlsmexico.com website is actually where we found our house last year. Choose Lake Chapala, and then just poke around!

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Saturday, March 17, 2007

Around Lake Chapala with My Sister-in-Law

Here are some photos Kelly's sister Molly took while she was visiting us recently. (I've cropped some of them a little for the web.)








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Monday, March 12, 2007

To San Juan Evangelista



While my sister-in-law Molly was here, she and I joined a group of other foreign women in a drive to San Juan Evangelista, a village that is between here and Guadalajara. It took a while to get there, going via Jocotepec. We went partly to see the art of Martin Ibarra, above and below. (All photos taken by Molly Hart.)


We also enjoyed the very old church:

Saturday, March 10, 2007

Americans in Mexico: an article

Here is an interesting article about US citizens living in San Miguel, but pertinent to all Americans in Mexico, and somewhat pertinent for Canadians in Mexico.

http://www.dissentmagazine.org/article/?article=723

I didn't agree with all of it, but thought it was worthwhile.

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Thursday, March 08, 2007

Daylight Saving Time: Different Here in Mexico

This coming Sunday, March 11, the US and Canada will shift to Daylight Saving Time, 3 weeks earlier than in previous years as an energy-saving measure.

I figured that Mexico would go along with it ("When the US sneezes, Mexico catches a cold" is a famous saying here), but I was wrong. I googled this question this morning and found several places that said Mexico is keeping to the old schedule. One said that most states in Mexico are, so maybe some of the border states would rather be in synch with the US than with the rest of Mexico for 3 weeks till Mexico joins in on April Fools' Day.

So if you are in Mexico and running a Windows computer, you may want to double-click on the time in the lower right hand corner of your screen and choose the time zones tab. Be sure yours is set to a Mexican city (and with New after it) or your computer may join the US time system.

I did learn something else interesting in my research. I had never known why Arizona doesn't use Daylight Saving Time. It's a perfectly logical reason -- changing would cause more energy usage, rather than less, due to the heavy use of air conditioning in that state.

In the fall, the US and Canada will stretch things out one week longer, and I suppose Mexico will stay with the old system. Anyway, my computer should know.

Tuesday, March 06, 2007

Cafetto Saga in San Juan Cosala



I've mentioned before that there is a charming little coffee house in San Juan Cosala. Kelly's sister Molly was just here for about ten days, and one of the first things we did was go out for coffee with her. Molly is a very good photographer, and I'll be doing several posts with her photos.

In the picture above, Kelly and I are enjoying a latte (him) and a chai latte (me). The flan and cheesecake are heavenly too, but I do find it possible (barely) not to indulge every time I go there. The hearts are dangling because it was shortly after Valentine's Day. The little tables are yin-and-yang... two can be fit together or used alone. Very cute. The first time I went here, I couldn't believe I was in this town, but now I must admit I am beginning to take it for granted.

Below is a picture of Claudia, the owner, with me. Claudia is from San Juan Cosala, in fact the cafe is located in property her family owns. She is a university-educated biologist, and has worked in that field, but she is now having great fun sharing her positive energy and love of life through the cafe! It is becoming popular with us foreigners and it also provides a place where young Mexican couples can gather. I think the foreigners tend to favor the mornings and the Mexicans the evenings, in general.


Cafetto Saga is located in the heart of San Juan Cosala, about 15 miutes west of Ajijic by car, on Calle Cardenal, towards the lake from the plaza. From the plaza, go downhill past the large statue of of the Virgin of Guadalupe, and it's about two and a half blocks on the right. The entrance is not especially large, so watch for it. At present, the cafe is open from 8 AM to noon and again from 6 PM to fairly late, and I think it's open every day except Monday. See you there!

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Saturday, March 03, 2007

Mexican Adoption Completed!

Kelly and I are very happy today. Our dear friends John and Amanda are driving with their daughter through New Mexico en route to Colorado, where they are from. I haven't written much about this, but it's taken over a year for John and Amanda to finalize the adoption of their Mexican-born daughter. It's been quite a roller coaster.

Mexico is not the easiest place in the world to go through the adoption process. They've had plenty of delays and red tape. But it is one of the best places to get your baby early. They have had theirs since she was two days old. Kelly and I have spent a lot of time with them here. In fact, it was because we were coming to visit them that our lives changed. Our plan was to go back to Bernal, Queretaro, but we came here to Lake Chapala to spend Christmas a year ago with them. That's when we began to realize that this is a better climate and then various things led us to buy our house here.

So for now the intertwining of our lives with theirs will be less immediate. No more barbecues together for a while, no more picking up the baby and tossing her into the air. (That was getting a bit harder lately, as she's not really a baby any more!)

Today I am near tears... of gratitude. And we'll see them again pretty soon, as we do think we'll be going to Colorado sometime this summer.

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