Today's post is written by a woman I know who is thinking of retiring to Mexico in the future and has spent time on several expat message boards about various parts of Mexico. Her opinions are hers, not mine, but very interesting I think. and I've added my comments at the bottom of the post.
I've noticed that expat communities in each of the major gringo magnets are a little different. All my observations come from regularly lurking on several message boards over a period of months and getting a feel for the personalities that frequently post there. Granted, it's a small and probably very skewed sample. But put the personalities together with what you can learn from the boards about that particular place itself, and you can definitely observe differences and form impressions. If you visit the boards for awhile, you'll see what I mean.
LAKE CHAPALA
The Lakeside communities attract more of the older, retired crowd. These communities self proclaim to be rather quiet with not much in the way of nightlife. The interactions on the message boards, both chapala.com and chapalaforum.com, are frequently aggressive, contentious and often just nasty.
I'm sure there are probably a lot of very nice people who live in these communities, but my impression from these boards is that there are too many with bad attitudes. Many have made Lakeside into gringolandia by importing their U.S. lifestyles there, then they complain about the next wave of new expats who do the same.
A couple of years ago I gave up on the idea of retiring in Mexico because of what I saw on chapala.com. But I later found other Mexico expat boards and blogs where there was a more positive atmosphere, so I'm back to considering Mexico for retirement. However, without having visited and based solely on what I read on these two message boards, I don't think the Chapala/Lakeside area is for me.
MERIDA
The Merida Insider board at meridainsider.com, although at times showing some bickering and sniping, is a much friendlier place. There seems to be a steady stream of younger expats in their 40s, 50s and even 30s, some with children, moving there. So the English speaking expat community here is not all retired folks. Far from it.
Merida is a city and thus has more cultural offerings in the way of music, visual arts and festivities. There's a huge renovation movement going on in the centro historico made up of expats buying and fixing up properties that Yucatecans can't afford to or don't want to repair.
The English speaking expats are a much smaller percentage of the community than they are in Lakeside. English is less widely spoken there by the Yucatecans, but that doesn't seem to stop many from moving there with inadequate Spanish. These same people then advise others not to do that on the message boards, but no one seems to be paying any attention and people with inadequate Spanish continue to move there on a regular basis.
This is a community which would greatly interest me if it were not for the relentless, punishing summertime heat. Been there, done that. I can take humidity better than I can tolerate temperatures over 90.
SAN MIGUEL DE ALLENDE
I have the impression that SMA is more artsy and expensive. There certainly seems to be a large number of expats with a large amount of money making large amounts of renovations and improvements on their Mexican homes. However, Carol, the board owner of Falling in Love with SMA, is a big SMA booster and lives very simply there on Social Security. Apparently apartments at "reasonable" rents can still be found, just not easily.
The board is small and doesn't have a lot of activity. Carol moderates it well and doesn't tolerate incivility. The people who post there do seem nice, friendly and helpful.
The arts are indeed huge here. It's a small city, so there is more to do than at Lakeside, and more night life. I might like it there, yet the fact that, once again, there is such a large amount of Americans living there doesn't appeal to me.
VERACRUZ
The Viva Veracruz board is small and doesn't have a lot of activity. People are very nice in their message board behavior. There was only one sarcastic, nasty and insulting person posting regularly at the beginning, but he stopped posting just about the time when the board owner was probably going to ban him.
The people who frequent this board seem to be more interested in environmental issues. They seem much more independent and not to need to live in an area with a lot of other English speaking expats. For many of them, that's why they are in Veracruz: because it's not an area favored by most of the expat crowd. This area interests me a great deal, especially Xalapa and the surrounding villages.
GUADALAJARA
I have yet to find a Guadalajara board, although I know there's a fairly large group of Americans and Canadians who live there. I've been told that there isn't really an English speaking expat "community" as such in Guadalajara. That says to me that these people are independent and not joiners. That's me all over. Maybe there isn't a board because the English speaking expats wouldn't likely participate even if one existed. The few who live there that I've run across on the net seem like nice people.
Guadalajara interests me a lot, also, for the availability of cultural offerings, activities, goods and services, in that order.
And she is surely throwing the baby out with the bath water with regard to the Lake Chapala area. Seems to me there is lots of nightlife here -- live music, some theater... and lots of daytime cultural events too. However, since she wants an area with fewer expats, somewhere else would be better.
We liked Xalapa a lot ourselves, but it is quite a lot warmer (though not as bad as Merida) and somewhat more prone to noticeable earthquakes than here at Lake Chapala.
I think this approach to choosing a region does have its pitfalls -- as the saying goes, the map is not the territory -- but since she wants a relatively expat-free zone but one that has some, it can help her week through her choices. If I had her tastes, I would take a good look at the city of Queretaro. Vibrant, clean downtown, lots of culture! When we lived in Bernal, an hour outside of Queretaro, we went there often. Here is a blog entry with photos that I did back then: