A Quick Update

In 2010, we moved back to the small town in Colorado that I never stopped missing while we lived in Mexico. Now I sometimes miss Mexico, but I wouldn't travel as freely as we did when we were there, camping out in remote areas and so forth.

Mexico today is in a period of change, and in many ways it is more dangerous now. That said, I have plenty of American friends who still live there very happily, just taking a few more precautions than they did in the past.

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October 29, 2006 — I recently received this email, and with the writer’s permission am posting it here in hopes that others can help me out with their own experiences. I can’t answer some of her questions.

I am an African American who is fascinated about Mexican culture and its people. As a black person, how will I be treated? I have read and heard nothing but bad things concerning blacks and Latin America, specifically Mexico.

Are Americans treated well in general?

…I was wondering though, are all of the wealthy white and all of the poor black or native? Are any of wealthy mixed race, black, or indigenous, or at least dark skinned in Mexico? Or is it that all of the wealthy and elite are european looking?

It is just that the image is one of rich whites controlling everything and dark skinned poor people, especially in Latin America, specifically Mexico. How color conscious are Mexicans in general and does it have any effect on how tourists are treated? What effect would it have on expatriates who are black getting a job? I have read about the “good presentation” meaning that they prefer the whiter, lighter skinned candidate. Is that true?

How much Spanish do I need to know before I enter mexico? I would like to go to a Mexican university but it has been years since i have learned Spanish… Your help would be greatly appreciated.

As a black how will you be treated? Hmm, I really don’t know. I have seen black people in various parts of Mexico from time to time but never had a chance to really ask a black person what his or her experiences have been. I saw a black American the day before I got your email, and from now on I will watch for a chance to ask someone — and of course blog about it!

Also, some of the black people I have seen have turned out to be Mexicans, usually from Mexico’s eastern shores. I’d imagine that they have experienced plenty of racism. This IS a very color-conscious society and more European-looking people are more likely to be news anchors, actresses, and so on. But bit by bit this is changing, and there are certainly many successful people with Indian appearance. Benito Juarez, one of Mexico’s greatest presidents, was of totally Indian ancestry.

Interestingly, several modern Mexicans whose skins and features show a strong ancestry of native peoples or perhaps both native and european have told me that they simply think of themselves as Mexicans. On the other hand, a brilliant friend of ours from Oaxaca in the south is very proud of the fact that he has no European blood.

Getting a job here as an expat has its own set of problems. I’m no expert but so far as I know, foreigners can’t get jobs that a Mexican could do, though I’m not totally sure how that works. There is also a reason that so many Mexicans head north to work. There often isn’t work here.

You ask how well Americans generally are treated, and that is one question I can answer. I and many other Americans and Canadians are delighted with the kindness and graciousness of the Mexican people. You can imagine, no doubt, that a lot of the actions of our current government — from planning a 700-mile-long fence to going to war abroad — do not go over well here. But Mexicans I have spoken with have always been extremely polite if the topic came up, and they are entirely able to separate how they feel about a government’s actions from how they feel about people they meet.

Many Americans who live here say that one of the main reasons they like it here is the people. That’s surely true for me, and if you read back through the posts you’ll see that.

You can come to Mexico without knowing Spanish, but the more you know, the richer your time here will be. There are many, many places with various price tags where you can take Spanish classes. For example, there is a Mexican woman in our town who I haven’t found yet who is said to give very good classes which cost about three dollars a session. You may be pleased at how much the Spanish you used to know will come back to you.

Okay… I am well aware that I have not truly answered your question about how much the color of your skin will lead Mexicans to pre-judge you. I have far too much awareness of how deeply people can be affected by conscious or unconscious racism to simply say that they will treat you as a person first and as a black person second. I don’t know if that will be the case for you. It certainly might be, but I just don’t know. If you have heard “nothing but bad” concerning blacks and Mexico, then another challenge for you would be to work at not letting those ideas shape your own personal experiences.

I’d say, come on down, trust that fascination, use common sense, and see what you learn. As a woman, especially if you come down by yourself, you will likely also encounter the ideas Mexican men have about American women!

Comments from the old blog:

    John said:

    Your perception of racial differ-
    ences in Mexico is incorrect. Do not listen to people in the U.S. who
    generally have predjudice against Mexico.(Bandits,bad roads,dangerous etc.)
    Mexico is a very racially diverse nation,whose people are remarkably free from racial prejudice. There ARE class distinctions; the very rich look down on everyone, as they do in the US. The very poor are not educated and therefore do not often
    rise to the top, but this is a world
    wide phenomenon, not race related.
    Here you will find more than 80 tribes of indigenous people, with their own languages and customs. In the north there are many Mennonite farmers from Germany, Chinese with the clothing factories, Koreans and Japanese in electronics, Arabs in all sorts of businesses and black people from all over the world in all levels of society.
    The “elite” with “old wealth” here are mainly of Spanish descent,but
    they no longer control society.
    As a tourist in Mexico you will be treated with respect. Mexicans are open and warm to “extranjeros”!
    Offer to teach English in return for help with your Spanish.
    Stop reading and start learning!

    Mark said:

    I live in Durango, Durango. Black people here are stared at a lot because there aren’t very many of them. A few years back a group came through and one of the members was black. They were at a restaurant eating a meal. Someone else ordered for them, but he wanted to order water himself. When the waitress came by he asked for it in broken Spanish. The entire restaurant applauded him! They were very excited that he was trying to learn their language.


    Anonymous said…

    I had some girlfriends from Jamaica visiting Mexico City for about a week some years ago. People would run into their homes to call their children to come out and see them, and they were once stopped by a woman and asked if her daughter could kiss them, because it was good luck. I don’t think they were offended, but they were a bit taken aback by all the attention.

  • Anonymous said…

    Hola,I am black and presently studing here in Mexico city (and i am not a latino).As one of the comments rightfully said – there aren’t many black persons here in Mexico so it’s abit strange for the majority of mexicans when the see a black person.The problem is that many mexicans have an idea of black people based on what they see on the telivision ie..the hip-hop and aggressive behavior thing,just as we have of them based on the telivision,I’LL say most negative comments you´ll find is from those persons with that telivision based view.

  • And yes due to their tarnished culture and identity by the eurppeans ,just as the blacks they feel that luck and oppertunity is on the white side.However,though it can be annoying at some times,they all ask alot of questions and sometimes thats good , that´ll give them a first time opertunity to speak to a black person and realize that we are ok persons.

  • Sometimes they get very excited when you talk to them(especially the ladies ,and the men also)sometimes no,but i’ll tell you for one, they ”will” treat you better that the americans will do to you.Last but not least,when they get to know you they can be the best friends,even invite you at their homes to see their family and friends(talking from experience).Just don’t make them feel that you need or depend on them or they will abuse it . For vacation o study “si´´ for work forget it,unless you intend to invest yourself.FROM A REAL BLACK BRETHREN,PEACE OUT!

  • Jorge said said…

    The thing here is, mexicans are not racist, since the mix of races occure since.. ever, so everybody has blood from evry race, my brother  has white skin and I have dark skin, we have the same parents, but my grandmother is white, while my grandfather was not, the problem here is elitism (money is important not race) but because there is little black people here when walk on the street people are going to look at you because is rare to see black people.

  • In Queretaro the only blacks are tourists of basketball players (for the local team) and everybody looks at them amazed of how tall they are, and many woman are in love with them because they are black.

    Denzel Washington and Will Smith are really big starts and studs here.

  • Anonymous said…

    I’m glad to hear that the reception to blacks is so good. I was planning on studing abroad in Mexico and was worried about how I would be treated. My grandmother is from Mexico, I wanted to connect to her heritage, but my parents tell me im crazy for wanting to go there. My father especially tells me that I’m not Mexican, Mexicans will never except me, and that I should just give up and stay in America. Hopefully I can visit soon and judge for myself. I really appreciate this subject, it gives me a little more reassurance. enough reassurance to keep trying.

  • Anonymous said…

    I have a Spanish surname and was treated horribly. Everywhere I went, my belongings were trashed if asked my nationality. I was only 14 at the time and and now just asking why I was treated so terribly because of Spanish descent. So all info has been appreciated.

  • Anonymous said…

    I am an african american who is married to a mexican and we’ll be relocating to mexico in early 2009.
    Dont be fooled, mexicans dont care too much about the color in thr rural areas, but they do NOT welcome anyone who thinks they are better than they are. Mexicans are proud, hardworking and generally nice people, but when in their country, approach them as timid puppies and they will embrace you with open arms and rewards. Dont offer advice, wait until they ask for it, and by all means, show an effort to understand them and learn the language. It may take more of you going the extra mile at first, but when it’s all said and done, it will be well worth it! Oh, and there are more Afro-Mexicans than you think. check out the costa chica in Bobby Vaughns blog or website. Good Luck!


    Hey, it’s me again….
    I was recently signed in as anonymous, but my name is Lisa Ruiz-Mojica, you know, the african american sista married to the mexican hombre. I will be living in guerrero in feb 2009, I am already volunteering to teach english (gratis) because my 13 year old cunado(brother inlaw)is having a hard time learning english in school. Most mexicans are just reacting to the way americans treat them, and as normal, they keep their defenses up, until they get to know you. We all do that with someone different. Of course, just like in any other country, the lighter the skin, the better you’re treated, but…remember, like us, it’s what’s been taught by society forever, and it’s all that they know. I can’t wait to be the new “gringa” on the block, or go to the market and sell beans and veggies with my suegra (mother in law) or just to be living wholesome off the earth. Im sure i will have some things to adjust to, but my life will the more richer for it!!!

  • Anonymous said…

    I am black and I have been living in Queretaro Mexico for two years, the people here are great, i never had any trouble from them as far as race,yes you get the stares but in general the people are nice and helpful especially if you try to use the language. They will do what they can to help you

  • Aritul said

    I hope it’s not too late to post something. I spent one summer (’08) in Mexico, specifically Oaxaca, Puerto Escondido, some “pueblos negros” and Mexico City. I found the people to be really cool– very welcoming, very nice, very patient as I struggled to speak Spanish. I definitely got stared at a lot especially in some parts of Mexico City and Oaxaca City, but I realize that’s probably because they don’t see that many blacks. In any case, I had a wonderful time and would definitely like to return one day.

  • WB said…

    My mother lived and worked in Santiago de Queretaro for 2 years. During that time, me and my two children (I’m bi-racial and my children are a much darker brown than I am) visited my mother twice. Both visits were wonderful. All of the people we came in contact with were warm, friendly, and helpful. They did not seem curious or surprised at all to see black people, although we did not see even one other black person durin our visits.

    Very few locals spoke any English. But there were all extremely patient when I would try to communicate with them in my broken Spanish.

    I fell in love with Qeretaro, Hildago, and the entire Yucatan peninsula. I would love to visit again someday and would not hesitate to move there for a year or two, if I had the opportunity.

  • I  said…

    Thanks, everyone!
    It fascinates me how people keep finding this page! It’s really an interesting conversation going on here.

18 Responses to “An African-American Asks About Mexico”

  • Net says:

    My husband and I have visited Puerto Vallarta three times and want to venture beyond the resort to get acquainted with the locals. We are African-American. Any suggestions.


  • Rosana says:

    Good for you! I think your time there will be more fun for reaching out. I don’t have any ideas that are specific to African-Americans, but this page listed below will give you a lot of ideas to try, for meeting people:


    Something else you could do before you go is to find bloggers who live in the area (just google puerto vallarta blogs or something of the sort) and email them for ideas specific to the area.

  • Net says:

    Thanks, Annette

  • Marilu says:

    Thank you every body my name is maria i'm hispanic from central america. My husband and I are thinking of retiring in Mexico possibly in Merida or somewhere in the Costa Maya. My husband is an african american and i'm not sure if he is going to be treated like every body else or if there is going to be racism against him.

  • Rosana says:

    Most African Americans I have talked with (not very many but a few) have not experienced racism to speak of. But I suggest you explore that area and see how people react to him.

  • Junoman says:

    I, too, have an interest and respect for the Mexican culture, and it's people. I am an African American male. I am planning a visit soon, I hope, to Mexico City, DF. It has been my experience generally, to have been treated with sincerity & warmth, by the MexicanHispanic friends I have had the pleasure of knowing in my life; once it was known the type of sincere indivdual I strive to be. I do believe that as 'we' peoples of African descent, get to know an individual of sincerity, we as well, demonstrate sincerity and warmth.

  • Mizjo says:

    My husband and I, (we are African-American) visited San Miguel de Allende for one month Back in ’08. I attended spanish language school (without much success) while he checked out the city. My husband, who is unmistakedly of african origin, was stared at everywhere we went; mostly by children. I, on the other hand, enjoyed all of the visual attention (blame it on my good looks..LOL). All in all, we found the mexican people friendly and accomodating. It was the reception that we got from Gringos that made our visit seem somewhat on the “chilly” side. Many, if not most, did not even bother to speak, or acknowledge us in anyway. Despite all of this, we intend to return one day. Hopefully the warmth of these fantastic people will have warmed these cold-hearted souls. J&A

  • Rosana says:

    Thanks for your comments, and why am I not surprised that some of the Americans brought their old attitudes with them?

  • Addy says:

    I am African American and my fiance and I will be getting married in Mexico in six months. He is Mexican born and though he has been very assuring, I too have been somewhat fearful of my reception of locals I’m hopeful of his family because I get along with the ones that live here very well but its everyone else I’m worried about. I have not received blatant racism in the States and I do not relish the thought of experiencing it for the first time during my wedding/vacation if anyone knows any good locations that would be very helpful.

  • Rosana says:

    Addy, chances are you will have a great time. As for places, what about where his family is? Six months puts you into the summer time when the coasts could be really hot and humid. Stay away from the places that are having crime problems like Ciudad Juarez.

    Mexicans are way more polite than we Americans and intrinsically less racist in my opinion, so I would say you are less likely to encounter racism there than here!

    And best wishes for a long and happy marriage.

  • ElHaitiano says:

    I’m black American and have visited Mexico (Mexico City and small towns) several times. I’ve never had a problem. My reaction here in the States and while in Mexico is that yes, stereotypes do exist, but all that goes out the window when they see you are “different”. No one expects me to speak Spanish. The fact that you took the time to learn their language and be in the country is a BIG deal. They will appreciate you for it and welcome you warmly. The more interested you act in the cultures and such, the more they will except you.

    Mexicans get a bad rap in the US and even among some other latinos. Everyone there I met was super friendly. I visited some small small towns and they were very nice too. They were definitely curious and many were dying to talk to me. The children were especially warm too. I was giving several piggy-back rides daily.

    I work heavily with mostly Mexican immigrants in the US here in LA and it’s the same thing. You would be amazed at how learning another language breaks down barriers.

    Also, as people have pointed out it is not really in Mexican culture to be racist towards blacks. Understand that some indigenous groups in Mexico believed the black people are inherently good. I was told a story by this kid that his father taught him that when the first ships arrived from the European settlers it was supposed to be the Africans arriving. There was supposed to be a big celebration but instead it turned out to be Europeans. Talk to those of indigenous descent and they will share many interesting stories with you.

    Don’t go to Mexico as a black person. Go as just who you are and that’s how they will treat you. I wouldn’t mind living there for a bit if it wasn’t for the current violence throughout the country.

  • krissykabuki says:

    I remember my experience in Puerto Vallarta. And it resonates with those aforementioned. My family and I received a lot of ‘curious’ stares, if you will, since at first, I thought those stares were coming from stereotypes and judgment. I have to admit, I felt pretty uncomfortable, aside from the overwhelming humidity. However, I had told my 15-year old brother after his complaints that “no one in America looks at us this way. I wanna go home,” that he shouldn’t be bothered by or feel uncomfortable with the stares as I told him that we are foreigners and of course we will be stared at since we look different.

    Aside from that, during the 4th and 5th days there, we were seen to be more receptive and vice versa. We felt a little more welcomed than day 1, and have found them to be very nice people as a whole…not to mention, flirtatious. Leonardo, our waiter at the time, would always light up when we would eat where he was serving, would always stop by me to talk, we danced a little, and he even made me a napkin flower! Aside from his flirtatious manner, he was truly sweet, along with this girl I met named Arito. Needless to say, and for the sake of argument, she’s light-skinned and even introduced us to her friends in her best English. Happy to say we’re now facebook friends :D

    So if you’re ever in Puerto Vallarta or in any part of Mexico, keep in mind that you will be ‘the talk of the town,’ but that should not deter your intention to have fun. After all, it is a well-deserved vacation.

  • Prinesslatty says:

    I am a black women from jamaica, my spouse id a white mexican from cancun and our son is mixed. we will be moving to mexico to live for a few month maybe years, i was there in 2010 and yes i got alot of stares but it was good. i dont speak spanish but i try to learn and communicate, i want some stuff for my hair but could not find any chemical to prem my hair, oil sheen etc . so now i’m freaking out when i was there i try to stay near my boyfriend family because i did not know how the public would react to a black girl( would they love me, hate me, want to kill me) i was so scared because it didnt know the people but i hope it work out better this time!!


    Ladies, where do you find product to do your hair in mexico?

    Can the hairdresser in mexico do black women hair?

  • Rosana says:

    Thanks for adding to the discussion! Since someone who knows the answer to your question may not see it here, I suggest you join the forum on Mexconnect.com, which is free, and ask there.

    You could also go to Google and search something like cancun ladies hair. If you will be somewhere near Cancun, I imagine it will be fine because it’s got a lot of tourists. Also, you will be not so far from Belize which has a lot of black ladies!

    Have a great time!

  • imamsun says:

    Hello. As an African American, I viisited Mazatlan at Pueblo Bonito in Mexico in 2006 with two other AA women, and an El Salvadorian woman. At the beautiful resort, we were treated like queens, HOWEVER, when visiting the town, we were snubbed. It was around Easter, and natives touring the streets in cars would shout “Negras!!” It appeared that women in shops were more arrogant and ignored me (a light skinned sista), more so than my dark skinned friends. A male street vendor, selling jewelry appeared to be flirting, and said that we had “People who looked like you in the mountains”. I didn’t quite understand, but thought that there were black Hispanic natives that may have migrated to certain areas. He said in Spanish to another man something that caused my El Salvadorian friend to pull me away, and say they were nasty and don’t talk to them. She will not tell me what they said to this day. I’m thinking that perhaps the Black resident may be poor and looked down upon? The fact that the towns people were so unwelcoming, and Matzatlan is so far away-( even though the resort was so impressive that I bought a time share), I am reluctant to ever return! Could someone fill me in on the history of Blacks/Africans in Mazatlan, and why we were ostracized?

  • Rosana Hart says:

    I don’t know the history but I appreciate your comment! (Was offline while traveling or would have approved it immediately.)

  • Carter Family says:

    Our BlackUS family has traveled to Puerto Vallarta since 1996. We have traveled there over a dozen times, most recently I was there in February 2015. We stay for 3 weeks and LOVE Mexico. The Mexican people are wonderful and treat us very well. Nuevo Vallarta and Puerto Vallarta are my favorite places on the planet! We know a few Black families that live there year round.

  • Ruth Collins says:

    I studied in Mexico as a young AA woman living with a middle class Mexican family at age 18. My white roommate and I traveled all over the country via bus and nowhere was I conscious of being different. I was treated with courtesy and my host family was very caring. Their ‘kids’invited us to swank parties and drove my roommate and me to resort towns all over Mexico. One of their friend’s dad was President of the State of Sinaloa. Following my departure, my host family arranged for my parents to stay with their relatives just across the street during the Olympics.
    Though I’d lost touch with them, I returned years later with my college bound daughters and looked them up. The proud father of the family had fallen on hard times financially but insisted on inviting us for dessert at a restaurant following a home cooked meal prepared by his daughter. It was humbling and I can’t explain how special it felt to receive that kind of hospitality, given their (changed) circumstances. My daughters & I had a wonderful time. My husband & I have visited several times more because of the hospitality we feel that’s so welcoming. We even landed seats on a flight out of Acapulco once to Mexico because I speak Spanish. There was a rush on for visitors to leave (don’t remember the reason) but I was aware that many were renting cars due to the lack of air seats. I presented myself at the airline counter and pleaded in Spanish and was shocked to be offered boarding cards while the non-Spanish speaking whites were left stranded. I can truly say that any coldness felt while in Mexico is from Americans who appear to take great exception to a black American who can flip back and forth between languages when they know only theirs. Arrogance gets them nowhere in Mexico for without the ability to converse in Spanish their expectation of the usual entitlements ends. Mexicans appreciate efforts, any efforts to speak with them in their language in their country. I’m now ready to retire and looking seriously at Mexico. My challenge is that my husband would be at a great disadvantage and so will I because I’d be depending upon him far more extensively to communicate while running a household or dealing with a host of everyday matters than while on vacation.
    I have traveled around the world and apart from the far east, only Mexico and Italy have I felt truly not judged by my skin color. Italy has its problems with racism but they are quite different than USA racism. By contrast, I’ve felt no racism in Mexico whatsoever which is NOT to say that it doesn’t exist as it does worldwide. I just have not felt a victim of it there.

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