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		<title>By: Rosana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rosana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Apr 2011 21:52:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for adding to the discussion! Since someone who knows the answer to your question may not see it here, I suggest you join the forum on Mexconnect.com, which is free, and ask there.

You could also go to Google and search something like cancun ladies hair. If you will be somewhere near Cancun, I imagine it will be fine because it&#039;s got a lot of tourists. Also, you will be not so far from Belize which has a lot of black ladies!

Have a great time!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for adding to the discussion! Since someone who knows the answer to your question may not see it here, I suggest you join the forum on Mexconnect.com, which is free, and ask there.</p>
<p>You could also go to Google and search something like cancun ladies hair. If you will be somewhere near Cancun, I imagine it will be fine because it&#8217;s got a lot of tourists. Also, you will be not so far from Belize which has a lot of black ladies!</p>
<p>Have a great time!</p>
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		<title>By: Prinesslatty</title>
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		<dc:creator>Prinesslatty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Apr 2011 18:21:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a black women from jamaica, my spouse id a white mexican from cancun and our son is mixed. we will be moving to mexico to live for a few month maybe years, i was there in 2010 and yes i got alot of stares but it was good. i dont speak spanish but i try to learn and communicate, i want some stuff for my hair but could not find any chemical to prem my hair, oil sheen etc . so now i&#039;m freaking out when i was there i try to stay near my boyfriend family because i did not know how the public would react to a black girl( would they love me, hate me, want to kill me) i was so scared because it didnt know the people but i hope it work out better this time!!

Question:

 Ladies, where do you find product to do your hair in mexico?

Can the hairdresser in mexico do black women hair?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a black women from jamaica, my spouse id a white mexican from cancun and our son is mixed. we will be moving to mexico to live for a few month maybe years, i was there in 2010 and yes i got alot of stares but it was good. i dont speak spanish but i try to learn and communicate, i want some stuff for my hair but could not find any chemical to prem my hair, oil sheen etc . so now i&#8217;m freaking out when i was there i try to stay near my boyfriend family because i did not know how the public would react to a black girl( would they love me, hate me, want to kill me) i was so scared because it didnt know the people but i hope it work out better this time!!</p>
<p>Question:</p>
<p> Ladies, where do you find product to do your hair in mexico?</p>
<p>Can the hairdresser in mexico do black women hair?</p>
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		<title>By: krissykabuki</title>
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		<dc:creator>krissykabuki</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Feb 2011 00:31:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I remember my experience in Puerto Vallarta.  And it resonates with those aforementioned.  My family and I received a lot of &#039;curious&#039; stares, if you will, since at first, I thought those stares were coming from stereotypes and judgment.  I have to admit, I felt pretty uncomfortable, aside from the overwhelming humidity. However, I had told my 15-year old brother after his complaints that &quot;no one in America looks at us this way.  I wanna go home,&quot; that he shouldn&#039;t be bothered by or feel uncomfortable with the stares as I told him that we are foreigners and of course we will be stared at since we look different.

Aside from that, during the 4th and 5th days there, we were seen to be more receptive and vice versa.  We felt a little more welcomed than day 1, and have found them to be very nice people as a whole...not to mention, flirtatious.  Leonardo, our waiter at the time, would always light up when we would eat where he was serving, would always stop by me to talk, we danced a little, and he even made me a napkin flower!  Aside from his flirtatious manner, he was truly sweet, along with this girl I met named Arito.  Needless to say, and for the sake of argument, she&#039;s light-skinned and even introduced us to her friends in her best English.  Happy to say we&#039;re now facebook friends :D

So if you&#039;re ever in Puerto Vallarta or in any part of Mexico, keep in mind that you will be &#039;the talk of the town,&#039; but that should not deter your intention to have fun.  After all, it is a well-deserved vacation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I remember my experience in Puerto Vallarta.  And it resonates with those aforementioned.  My family and I received a lot of &#8216;curious&#8217; stares, if you will, since at first, I thought those stares were coming from stereotypes and judgment.  I have to admit, I felt pretty uncomfortable, aside from the overwhelming humidity. However, I had told my 15-year old brother after his complaints that &#8220;no one in America looks at us this way.  I wanna go home,&#8221; that he shouldn&#8217;t be bothered by or feel uncomfortable with the stares as I told him that we are foreigners and of course we will be stared at since we look different.</p>
<p>Aside from that, during the 4th and 5th days there, we were seen to be more receptive and vice versa.  We felt a little more welcomed than day 1, and have found them to be very nice people as a whole&#8230;not to mention, flirtatious.  Leonardo, our waiter at the time, would always light up when we would eat where he was serving, would always stop by me to talk, we danced a little, and he even made me a napkin flower!  Aside from his flirtatious manner, he was truly sweet, along with this girl I met named Arito.  Needless to say, and for the sake of argument, she&#8217;s light-skinned and even introduced us to her friends in her best English.  Happy to say we&#8217;re now facebook friends :D</p>
<p>So if you&#8217;re ever in Puerto Vallarta or in any part of Mexico, keep in mind that you will be &#8216;the talk of the town,&#8217; but that should not deter your intention to have fun.  After all, it is a well-deserved vacation.</p>
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		<title>By: ElHaitiano</title>
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		<dc:creator>ElHaitiano</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Jan 2011 11:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m black American and have visited Mexico (Mexico City and small towns) several times. I&#039;ve never had a problem. My reaction here in the States and while in Mexico is that yes, stereotypes do exist, but all that goes out the window when they see you are &quot;different&quot;. No one expects me to speak Spanish. The fact that you took the time to learn their language and be in the country is a BIG deal. They will appreciate you for it and welcome you warmly. The more interested you act in the cultures and such, the more they will except you. 

Mexicans get a bad rap in the US and even among some other latinos. Everyone there I met was super friendly. I visited some small small towns and they were very nice too. They were definitely curious and many were dying to talk to me. The children were especially warm too. I was giving several piggy-back rides daily. 

I work heavily with mostly Mexican immigrants in the US here in LA and it&#039;s the same thing. You would be amazed at how learning another language breaks down barriers. 

Also, as people have pointed out it is not really in Mexican culture to be racist towards blacks. Understand that some indigenous groups in Mexico believed the black people are inherently good. I was told a story by this kid that his father taught him that when the first ships arrived from the European settlers it was supposed to be the Africans arriving. There was supposed to be a big celebration but instead it turned out to be Europeans. Talk to those of indigenous descent and they will share many interesting stories with you. 

Don&#039;t go to Mexico as a black person. Go as just who you are and that&#039;s how they will treat you. I wouldn&#039;t mind living there for a bit if it wasn&#039;t for the current violence throughout the country. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m black American and have visited Mexico (Mexico City and small towns) several times. I&#8217;ve never had a problem. My reaction here in the States and while in Mexico is that yes, stereotypes do exist, but all that goes out the window when they see you are &#8220;different&#8221;. No one expects me to speak Spanish. The fact that you took the time to learn their language and be in the country is a BIG deal. They will appreciate you for it and welcome you warmly. The more interested you act in the cultures and such, the more they will except you. </p>
<p>Mexicans get a bad rap in the US and even among some other latinos. Everyone there I met was super friendly. I visited some small small towns and they were very nice too. They were definitely curious and many were dying to talk to me. The children were especially warm too. I was giving several piggy-back rides daily. </p>
<p>I work heavily with mostly Mexican immigrants in the US here in LA and it&#8217;s the same thing. You would be amazed at how learning another language breaks down barriers. </p>
<p>Also, as people have pointed out it is not really in Mexican culture to be racist towards blacks. Understand that some indigenous groups in Mexico believed the black people are inherently good. I was told a story by this kid that his father taught him that when the first ships arrived from the European settlers it was supposed to be the Africans arriving. There was supposed to be a big celebration but instead it turned out to be Europeans. Talk to those of indigenous descent and they will share many interesting stories with you. </p>
<p>Don&#8217;t go to Mexico as a black person. Go as just who you are and that&#8217;s how they will treat you. I wouldn&#8217;t mind living there for a bit if it wasn&#8217;t for the current violence throughout the country.</p>
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		<title>By: Rosana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rosana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Jan 2011 03:58:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Addy, chances are you will have a great time. As for places, what about where his family is? Six months puts you into the summer time when the coasts could be really hot and humid. Stay away from the places that are having crime problems like Ciudad Juarez.

Mexicans are way more polite than we Americans and intrinsically less racist in my opinion, so I would say you are less likely to encounter racism there than here!

And best wishes for a long and happy marriage.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Addy, chances are you will have a great time. As for places, what about where his family is? Six months puts you into the summer time when the coasts could be really hot and humid. Stay away from the places that are having crime problems like Ciudad Juarez.</p>
<p>Mexicans are way more polite than we Americans and intrinsically less racist in my opinion, so I would say you are less likely to encounter racism there than here!</p>
<p>And best wishes for a long and happy marriage.</p>
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		<title>By: Addy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Addy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Jan 2011 07:34:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am African American and my fiance and I will be getting married in Mexico in six months. He is Mexican born and though he has been very assuring, I too have been somewhat fearful of my reception of locals I&#039;m hopeful of his family because I get along with the ones that live here very well but its everyone else I&#039;m worried about. I have not received blatant racism in the States and I do not relish the thought of experiencing it for the first time during my wedding/vacation if anyone knows any good locations that would be very helpful. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am African American and my fiance and I will be getting married in Mexico in six months. He is Mexican born and though he has been very assuring, I too have been somewhat fearful of my reception of locals I&#8217;m hopeful of his family because I get along with the ones that live here very well but its everyone else I&#8217;m worried about. I have not received blatant racism in the States and I do not relish the thought of experiencing it for the first time during my wedding/vacation if anyone knows any good locations that would be very helpful.</p>
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		<title>By: Rosana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rosana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Dec 2010 03:40:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for your comments, and why am I not surprised that some of the Americans brought their old attitudes with them?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your comments, and why am I not surprised that some of the Americans brought their old attitudes with them?</p>
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		<title>By: Mizjo</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mizjo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Dec 2010 03:19:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My husband and I, (we are African-American) visited San Miguel de Allende for one month Back in &#039;08. I attended spanish language school (without much success) while he checked out the city. My husband, who is unmistakedly of african origin, was stared at everywhere we went; mostly by children. I, on the other hand, enjoyed all of the visual attention (blame it on my good looks..LOL). All in all, we found the mexican people friendly and accomodating. It was the reception that we got from Gringos that made our visit seem somewhat on the &quot;chilly&quot; side. Many, if not most, did not even bother to speak, or acknowledge us in anyway. Despite all of this, we intend to return one day. Hopefully the warmth of these fantastic people will have warmed these cold-hearted souls. J&amp;A</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My husband and I, (we are African-American) visited San Miguel de Allende for one month Back in &#8217;08. I attended spanish language school (without much success) while he checked out the city. My husband, who is unmistakedly of african origin, was stared at everywhere we went; mostly by children. I, on the other hand, enjoyed all of the visual attention (blame it on my good looks..LOL). All in all, we found the mexican people friendly and accomodating. It was the reception that we got from Gringos that made our visit seem somewhat on the &#8220;chilly&#8221; side. Many, if not most, did not even bother to speak, or acknowledge us in anyway. Despite all of this, we intend to return one day. Hopefully the warmth of these fantastic people will have warmed these cold-hearted souls. J&amp;A</p>
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		<title>By: Junoman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Junoman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Sep 2010 23:32:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I, too, have an interest and respect for the Mexican culture, and it&#039;s people.  I am an African American male.  I am planning a visit soon, I hope, to Mexico City, DF.  It has been my experience generally, to have been treated with sincerity &amp; warmth, by the MexicanHispanic friends I have had the pleasure of knowing in my life; once it was known the type of sincere indivdual I strive to be.  I do believe that as &#039;we&#039; peoples of African descent, get to know an individual of sincerity, we as well, demonstrate sincerity and warmth.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I, too, have an interest and respect for the Mexican culture, and it&#39;s people.  I am an African American male.  I am planning a visit soon, I hope, to Mexico City, DF.  It has been my experience generally, to have been treated with sincerity &amp; warmth, by the MexicanHispanic friends I have had the pleasure of knowing in my life; once it was known the type of sincere indivdual I strive to be.  I do believe that as &#39;we&#39; peoples of African descent, get to know an individual of sincerity, we as well, demonstrate sincerity and warmth.</p>
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		<title>By: Rosana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rosana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Aug 2010 04:27:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Most African Americans I have talked with (not very many but a few) have not experienced racism to speak of. But I suggest you explore that area and see how people react to him.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Most African Americans I have talked with (not very many but a few) have not experienced racism to speak of. But I suggest you explore that area and see how people react to him.</p>
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